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As Christian parents, we are responsible for the spiritual nurture of our children. Yet, this nurturing is like a swinging door—it works both ways, if we allow it. When Jesus placed a child among His disciples as they argued about greatness, He showed that children themselves can be spiritual models. He said, “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 18:3). Indeed, our children have much to teach us.

1. Freedom from Worry

A few years ago, we gave our ten-year-old son a new wallet. He put all his savings—Rs. 490—into it. Later that day, during a picnic, he lost it. We searched but could not find it. After some time, he simply said, “It’s okay, Dad. I’ll start saving again. Next time I’ll be more careful.”

He was disappointed, but he moved on quickly and learned from the experience. In doing so, he gave us a valuable lesson: instead of worrying, we can learn and grow from life’s losses.

2. Simple Trust in God

When our children were young, we taught them to pray. Over time, they began to pray on their own. Our four-year-old daughter’s bedtime prayers revealed a beautiful, childlike trust in God. She spoke with gratitude and confidence, believing that God hears and answers.

Through her, we learned the joy of simple, heartfelt prayer and a deeper trust in God’s presence.

3. Joy in Simple Things

One day, our six-year-old daughter invited me to a “tea party.” It was simple—a cardboard box as a table, a small towel as a tablecloth, and tiny cups filled with tea. She was delighted, but I struggled to relax, thinking about chores waiting to be done.

That moment taught me an important lesson: the most meaningful experiences in life are often simple. Taking time to be present with our children builds relationships that matter far more than daily tasks.

4. Courage in Difficult Times

A particularly challenging time came when our son had to undergo open-heart surgery. As parents, we were filled with fear, but our young son showed remarkable courage. Though he did not fully understand the danger, he faced the situation calmly and bravely.

During that week, we witnessed his resilience, hope, and trust. His courage became a source of strength for us and reminded us to face life’s trials with faith.

5. The Gift of Forgiveness

Children have an amazing ability to forgive quickly. Once, after I had expressed anger toward my three-year-old daughter, she returned within minutes and said, “Mom, come, let’s play.” While I was still upset, she had already moved on.

From her, I learned the power of letting go. Children do not hold grudges—they forgive and restore relationships easily. This is a lesson we, as adults, often struggle to practice.

On another occasion, after a stressful day, I came home upset. My daughter gently drew my attention away from my worries and comforted me with love and compassion. In that moment, she helped me release my anger and find peace.

Jesus calls us to become like children. Do we take His words seriously? Are we willing to learn from them—to trust, to forgive, to find joy in simplicity, and to live without worry?

Perhaps, as we seek to teach our children, we must also remain humble enough to be taught by them.